birthdays

I'm doing a book, cd etc for DH for his birthday. Im stoney brokey so it's like a little filler. Tried so many websites looking for love quotes etc and they're all the same!! Is nothing original anymore? Things still aren't great but we're taking a few days off from talking about problems to give ourselves a bit of a break. Its too hard fighting all the time. Takes sooooo much energy!!!!

Heart broken

My Partner has told me that he definately wants to go back to college next year. This means that it will be another 4 years at least before we can start trying for a family. Im heartbroken. I dont have this long. Physically I might but mentally I wont be able to wait this long. So what do I do? Am I being selfish? Is he being selfish? Are we compatible at all? I love him but is that enough? Help!!!! I dont know how to handle this!!!